Relationships are a funny thing!

Human relationships are like a roller coaster ride sadly whose lows seem to come too often and the highs seem to pass too soon.

Every human being in his/her life come across many different relationships starting with mother, of unconditional love and support. The next relationship is maybe with father, of comfort and security.

Then comes a relationship with friends of happiness and sharing. Most of you disagree but you have a relationship with your teacher too, relationship of learning.

So, every person related to us directly or indirectly has some bond of relationship with us. Now it is for us to decide whether we have to keep it a bond or we have to convert it into a bondage. 

“Every guy is looking for a perfect girl and every girl is looking for a perfect guy, you know it's quite amazing. A perfect girl or a boy doesn’t bother, doesn’t shout, doesn’t flirt, doesn’t lie, doesn’t cheat and doesn’t exist.”, Gaur Gopal Das Ji. 

If you look at any relationship between any two human beings like an observer you will notice most of them follows the same pattern of love at first sight and divorce at first fight. 

Most human beings treat their relationship like a deal where they want to be on a profit-making side all the time. If you are making a deal in which only you are getting all of the profit then, it is not a business deal it is a simple example of business fraud. Because of this fraud every relationship shifts its path from happiness and love to fear and pain. This kind of relationship is driven by fear of being alone.

Despite this, human beings yearn for relationships. Even a broken heart – scarred by love lost – pursues and rejoices in love again. But as time marches past, the excitement of the future becomes repetend of past, the joy of love get replaced by fear of loneliness. The very relationships we once coveted, suffocates us. Lovers quarrel, parents and children grow weary of each other, and friendships run out of steam. So, the old is discarded, but then once again the quest for the new begins afresh.

Relationships! We can’t live with them; we can’t live without them. That’s why I say relationships are a funny thing!

    

 

  

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  1. heartbroken mayaFebruary 11, 2021 at 4:36 PM

    Such a deep understanding about relationships in and out. Just loved it.

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